• Jesse John Francis Clark

Use Your Haters As Fuel For Your Success

For anyone who puts their life out in the open, you will be subject to the wrath of haters. What is a hater? Well, first off, I have never seen a hater who was doing better than me. These types of people are very special and I admire their tenacity. You see a hater (someone who does not like you and has some sort of vendetta) will take time out of their day to go online and harass you.


When I was younger I use to get upset that someone would talk bad about me. It was very concerning. I use to question myself: What was I doing wrong? What do I need to do to please them? It wasn’t until my 30's that I found the answer. The answer is ATTENTION. If people are not hating, you are not getting attention. You are not getting noticed. It’s that simple. Now that I am older, I absolutely admire my haters. I feed off of them. I use you as fuel. Haters are the reason I work 80 hours a week. I crush my goals. What have you done?

I love it when someone tries to bash me or talk bad about me like leaving a comment on my social media pages. It means that people are paying attention. There is one thing that I will not do in this life and that is walk quietly to my grave. There are people who are born and live a full life and no one knew who they were. That’s not me. You will know who I am and I don’t care if you like me or not. I’m not here to please you. I have no obligation to you. I know who I am.

You see, I will always have a good life. I have always had the best of everything. It’s just who I am. My work ethic is second to none. I will outwork anyone. If I want something, I get it. These haters have to come to terms with who I am. If you are a hater and you are reading this, you should ask yourself why you take time out of your day to try to ruin mine. For you to have the thought in your brain that you need to go online and look up someone else says to me that you are a low-performance person. Your income must be horrendous if you have all this time to harass someone else. Successful people do not have the time to worry about other people. For example, a couple of weeks ago, I was eating dinner at The Capital Grille. I go every week and order the same thing every time. However, during this dinner, I happened to look at my Instagram and someone was flooding every post with profanity and hate words. (By the way, It’s always someone who doesn't post their real name or photo) Anyway, you know what I did? I blocked the user and I went back to eating my filet. You see, I’m out having a nice meal and this person is somewhere in the world focusing on me. What does that say about that person’s life?


Listen, there is nothing that hasn't been said about me. I have been called every name in the book. There is nothing you can do that will change me or my life. It took you three minutes to read this. That's three minutes I took off your life to focus on me. Every time you take time out of your day to harass me, I win. I will always win. Here’s a tip, If you really want to aggravate someone you don’t like, the best thing for you is to not pay attention.